Some time when the river is ice ask me what mistakes I have made.

stafford croppedThis is the first line from a well-loved poem by William Stafford. He often writes about things that appear to be calm, but aren’t.  I think his poems are like that, too.  At first glance, they don’t seem very challenging. But it’s a mistake to read quickly … Read More

“Even then I sensed this . . . would be at the core of my imagination for the rest of my life.”

PamukcropThis novel is a collection of beautiful sentences about self-discovery.  For example: “It was during these days that I first began to feel fissures opening in my soul, wounds of the sort that plunge some men into a deep, dark, lifelong loneliness for which there is no … Read More

“Trust that the presence of long-held stories in your memories are there for reasons beyond entertainment.”

shadiow bookJohn Dewey, one of my heroes, said that you don’t learn from experience — you learn from thinking about your experience. That’s the idea that What Our Stories Teach Us is based on. Linda K. Shadiow outlines a three-step process of description, interpretation, and analysis. Is this … Read More

“…the world offers itself to your imagination, calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting…”

Oliver croppedToday, Thanksgiving Day, should not end before we think about the writers who have  changed us. For me, the one who floats to the top this year is Mary Oliver. It’s hard not to say “wow” after reading a poem like “Wild Geese” .  You might … Read More

“They could tell it was Jun Do who’d picked which orphans ate first and which were left with watery spoonfuls.”

Johnson editWhen Jun Do was a child living in an orphanage in North Korea, one of his responsibilities was to decide which of his peers would be punished.  That was just the beginning. As an adult, he was often in the impossible position of trying to let the … Read More

“I am the rest between two notes . . . in the dark interval, reconciled, they stay there trembling.”

Rilke croppedThis poem about tension and transition is classic Rainer Marie Rilke. He explored both of these dynamics frequently in a his letters, which were published in a book titled Letters to a Young Poet. (They are among the most famous, best -loved letters in all of … Read More

“Every behavior has more than one cause.”

Cain croppedLooking for a simple explanation for why some people are introverts and others are extroverts? Then don’t read Susan Cain’s book Quiet. Her explanation has not one, not two, not three, but four factors: our  inborn temperament, environment, free will, and how these interact at any … Read More

“So we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past.”

Fitgerald croppedWhat does this final line of The Great Gatsby mean?  That depends on what you want it to mean.  You can use this line to support an affirming “life goes on” perspective. Or, if you are an existentialist, you can say that it shows how pointless … Read More

“I wandered lonely as a cloud”

Great poems croppedThis is the opening line of a poem written by the revolutionary William Wordsworth in 1804.  He shook things up by experimenting with “real language” (as opposed to the formal style found in serious writing), and he wrote about feelings (as opposed to intellectual matters). This line … Read More

“Only the past interests me now.”

See croppedAlbert Einstein wrote that the separation between the past, present and future  is only a stubbornly persistent  illusion.  This idea is at play in Lisa See’s novel Snow Flower and the Secret Fan.  The narrator is an old woman who looks back and concludes that she … Read More

“Now I become myself.”

parker j palmerParker Palmer quotes this wonderful opening line from a poem by May Sarton  in his collection of autobiographical essays Let Your Life Speak. For him, the process of “becoming” meant taking many wrong turns before finding the right ones. People who know him only as the … Read More